"May I Have This Dance!" (Script)

 

When I was in the 6th and 7th grade – back in the early 60’s,

 I was in a club for girls at the Statesboro Recreation Department

called the “Happy Go Lucky Club” – or HGLs.

 We met every Monday night during the school year –

and although we played other games and had refreshments,

 the big activity of the evening was DANCING.

Mrs. Russell would put on the music and the older girls – who had learned the previous year – would teach the younger girls how to jitterbug and slow dance too.

Mrs. Russell had ways to make sure we all had partners, and we would swap often.

There were also dance contests –

and the best dancers would always partner up so they could win.

But that was okay, because for the most part we all had a great time together.

 Now I was trying to remember the grade levels for this Club,

and posted a question about it to my FACEBOOK women friends

who grew up in Statesboro and perhaps attended.

Several responded and many of them also shared their memories of this club.

 Interestingly enough, most of these memories were of the big dress up dance

held at the end of the year in which we invited BOYS.

And some had good memories of this – with special dates and full dance cards.

 And others remember sitting on the side lines

and learning the meaning of the word “wall flower.”

Because you see, we’d been taught that on the night the boys came,

the proper thing was for us to sit nicely along the wall and wait for a boy to ask us to dance. And the boys had been taught that they should bravely risk rejection

 and should walk up to a girl, extend their hand and say, “May I have this dance?”

 Of course, many were very shy about doing this – so the dance floor didn’t fill up

till the “Girl’s Choice” dances – which were rare.

 Now as you might imagine --- I don’t LIKE to sit by a wall.

 I like to DANCE. So. the words, “May I have this dance?”

used to be somewhat problematic to me because of these memories.

But all that has changed now.

Anyone can ask anyone else to dance.

And you can dance with any one regardless of gender

and with one person or a group.

And you can just dance by yourself!    How great is that!

Although I have no problem dancing by myself,  I do enjoy dancing with others.

So, the words, “May I have this dance?” are becoming happier words to me

in this world of more dancing opportunities.

Ric Masten, songwriter and UU troubadour,

 included these words in the 2nd Line to his song, “Let it be a dance.”

Ric was, of course, talking about LIFE itself. Let it be a dance!

But he included this invitation --- “May I have this dance with you?” –

because he understood the need to invite others into that Dance of Life!

Similarly, we are here in a faith community together –

knowing that we need one another for some of the dance steps we take in life.

And we need to INVITE others to participate.

Therefore, I am extending my hand to you this morning –

and asking you to dance WITH me in this Ministry!

As I do that, let me be clear – I do think that professional ministry is important.

Believe me – I would not have spent years in preparation – taking seminary courses,

writing a boatload of papers, doing practicum and intern experiences,

working in a hospital as a chaplain,

 and jumping through all those hoops that the ministerial fellowship committee put before me – if I did not believe in the value of professional ministry.

But this is one dance folks—this dance of the ministry of this congregation –

that I do not want to do alone, nor should I – nor could I.

For one thing, I’m supposedly serving this congregation “half-time.”

Even so, our needs and the needs of this community are great.

But sharing ministry is not about freeing up my time!

It’s about growing through love together and reaching out to others together.

So, again, my question to you today is: “May I have this dance with you?”

Will you share this ministry?

Before I go any further though, I should clarify what I mean by ministry. (Silence)

 I wish I could. Ministry is one of those things like pornography.

You know it when you see it and experience it – but it’s somewhat difficult to define.

Rev. Mark Morrison Reed, a Unitarian Universalist minister in Toronto, Canada

agrees with the difficulty in defining ministry but makes a pretty good stab at it, I think.

He says: “It is a quality of presence we bring that is grounded in our liberal religious faith. Singing and preaching, teaching and leading, caring and justice work are all ministries.

It is what we do together when we gather in community.”

Although the phrase “Shared Ministry” is relatively new –

or at least has received more attention in the last couple of decades, -

 the concept of sharing ministry is not new at all.

  Religious folks have been encouraging their lay folks to minister to others

from the very beginning.

But we Unitarian Universalists have a particular history that lifts up this possibility even more.

And because having a good history lesson prepares us for the present and future,

 I’m going to share a little of that with you here today.

After all, we are Unitarian Universalists, and most of us are fans of history. Plus, I was a teacher for many years, and sometimes I feel the need to teach a little.

The Unitarians and the Universalists merged in the early 60’s –

but the history I’m going to share today is more from our Unitarian side of the family –

because that’s where a lot of emphasis on sharing ministry can be found.

The Unitarians, along with the Anabaptists and others, were the RADICAL Protestants.

 And the Protestant reformation is what really re-opened the door

to this concept of shared ministry.

Rev. Jan Carlsson-Bull puts it this way: “Shared ministry emerges from a notion called

 ‘the priesthood of all believers.’

(You see) -The early Christian church had no priests.

 It was informal and egalitarian, with each believer expected to use her or his individual gifts to build up the Christian community,

 which was pretty wobbly in those days of the Roman Empire.

This understanding receives especially strong emphasis in the First Letter of Peter.

Believers are implored to “Come to him, to that living stone….

and like living stones be yourselves built into a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood.”

Of course, it only took a couple of centuries for the church to become

 a hierarchical empire of sorts.

 And one could only be a bishop or priest if he (and that HE is intentional of course)

 was in apostolic succession.

 In other words, Peter had been ordained by Christ,

 then in turn, he ordained others – who ordained others – all the way up to today!

The Anglican and Episcopal churches also consider themselves to be in that same Apostolic order that the Roman Catholics lift up because the bishops in the Church of England

(when it split from the Roman Catholic Church) were ordained in that line.

And they ordained others all the way down.

Many years ago, I attended the ordination of a priest in the Episcopal tradition.

 And they make a big deal of that apostolic succession.

The bishop and priests came from all around to lay their hands on this young man

and to designate him as one in that succession

to both bring God’s message and to serve others.

But there was once another young priest who disagreed with this –

and his name, of course, was Martin Luther.

Now Luther, you may remember, was a German priest and theologian

who was very upset about the selling of indulgences –

 and the church’s practice of taking advantage of folks by having them, in effect,

 buy their way into heaven.

 So, he nailed his 95 theses to a church door in 1517 to protest.

And as far as the Church was concerned – all hell broke loose.

When he refused to recant, the Church excommunicated him –

and thus, the Protestant revolt began.

Luther’s theology challenged the authority of the pope

and taught that all baptized Christians were part of a holy priesthood –

 thus, the priesthood of all believers.

Well, when he opened up the possibility of folks reading and thinking for themselves –

 folks like US took him seriously.

 And that part of the reformation – the part that included the Unitarians in Europe –

 became known as the radical reformation.

Our history is a little complicated – though.

And the Unitarian churches in the U.S. did not descend directly

from those Unitarians in Europe.

Instead, we “evolved” from the Puritans.

But even our Puritan ancestry gives us a foundation for shared ministry.

You see the Puritans were separating themselves from the hierarchical Church of England. And they declared their independence in something called the Cambridge Platform.

This independence was not needed because of differing beliefs.

They still maintained a similar doctrine.

The Cambridge Platform was basically a document that shared

with the Church of England that “You are not the boss of me” –

and we will walk together over here with one another as independent congregations –

but in association with one another.

The big word for this is “Congregational Polity.”

And congregational polity also lends itself to shared ministry –

sharing with each other within the congregation,

and sharing in association with our fellow Unitarian Universalist churches.

Now just as our early Unitarian churches evolved from the Puritans, we continued to evolve – and as our Unitarian ancestry was evolving – so was our Universalist ancestry

(who also, by the way, had congregational polity) – till they both reached a point in 1961

 that they felt they could do better sharing their ministries together rather than separately.

 And so, the Unitarians and the Universalists got married and covenanted together

 to affirm and promote our shared principles and sources.

Today the “Priesthood of the Believer” has evolved in Unitarian Universalist congregations

to be the “Ministry of each person in the congregation.” Yes, you are all ministers!

This was affirmed by one of UUA’s Commission on Appraisal Reports in 1997.

In this report is the following finding:

“One key aspect of Unitarian Universalism is our belief that ministry of the congregation

does not belong exclusively to ordained clergy, but to everyone.”

One of my Unitarian Universalist heroes and a giant 20th century theologian,

James Luther Adams, took this idea of “Priesthood of all Believers” a giant step further.

He stretched that notion to the “Prophethood of all Believers.”

 Now when he talked of prophesy – he was not referring to fortune telling.

 “Prophets, we might remember, were those annoying flower children of the Old Testament – Jonah, Isaiah, Jeremiah, Amos.

Troublemakers all, they called the populace of their day

 to take seriously stuff like loving your neighbor as yourself

 and honoring the divine by so doing.” (Jan Carolson-Bull)

Here is a quote from Adams –which is very relevant today:

“The prophetic liberal church is not a church in which the prophetic function is assigned merely to a few….

The prophetic liberal church is the church in which people think and work together

to interpret the signs of the times in the light of their faith,

to make explicit through discussion the epochal thinking that the times demand.

(Listen) - The Prophetic liberal church is the church in which all members

share the common responsibility to attempt to foresee the consequences of human behavior (both individual and institutional) with the intention of making history

 in place of merely being pushed around by it….

 Only through the prophetism of all (members) can we together

foresee doom and mend our common ways.”

Wow – that’s a lot for us all to live up to – to be priests and prophets.

 But it’s sure a lot easier if we all do it together.

So, I’m asking you to join me and others in this dance of ministry!

Some of the folks in this congregation have been on the dance floor for a long time,

and we are encouraging and inviting everyone to join us in the ministry of this church.

So, what specifically does that mean for you?

 Do I want you to come up here and preach next week?

Well, actually – Randy Blasch has already danced his way into that spot.

But there are many wonderful ways you can share the ministry of this congregation.

The chair of our membership committee, Beth Stevenson, is going to be sending out a survey asking you to indicate what talents and skills you can share with us – plus noting lists of things that we currently do – and asking you to share your interest. 

As you complete that form, ask yourself three questions:

1.   What am I good at?; 2. What do I like to do?; (and those are not always the same thing); and 3. What needs to be done?

But you don’t have to wait till you complete the form or till someone asks you to serve.

The music is already playing.

We need folks to come to the dance floor now.

Don’t wait for me or another leader to hold out our hand and ask you to dance.

Remember when the HGL’s had the girl’s choice dances the dance floor filled up.

Well, as the DJ today – I’m calling for a Members and Friends choice! 

If you see a need, or have an interest – tell one of us and we will try to make that happen!

AND - We are attempting to be a voice on the side of love in this community.

Are there ways you can be that prophetic voice?

Or join others in serving the needs of this community?

Now - I realize that there are some in our congregation who have a lot of difficult “stuff” going on in their lives right now; and may not be able to dance every dance.

But there are things we all can do – whether it’s sending cards to those in need;

or even just being present to support others.

What is your ministry?

Jan Carson Bull asked her congregation:

“What are you doing right now that speaks to the faith and works of this congregation, that feeds the hungry, that teaches our children, that hollers to the powers that be in our own time to change course, that keeps the kitchen clean and the facilities painted, that helps the flowers grow, that helps us all grow?”

The little doves in our story for all ages couldn’t lift that net with just a few flapping their wings and flapping in different directions.

To lift our wonderful free faith to higher heights, we need to share this ministry.

May I have this dance with you? I’m borrowing from an Anne Murray tune to close this out –

May I have this dance? I ask all of you
Dancing together in all we go through
When we dance together, what wonders we do
May I have this dance – for the next year or two!

If you accept, join me in singing the chorus to Let it Be a Dance!

SLIDE

Sing: “Let it be a dance we do! May I have this dance with you? In the good times and the bad times too, let it be a dance?”